Sarah.

Awake, conservative, Christian (follower of Christ!), old-fashioned and old-souled. Probably an INFJ-T or INFP-T!

✝️ Proverbs 16:32 -
"Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city."

✝️ Romans 5:3-4
"Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured out into our heart's through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us."

✝️ Psalms 34:18-20 -
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all; he protects all his bones, not one of them will be broken."

The more I've learned to lean on Christ, the more I've come to find joy in my life, and in the trials that come with it. I often pray for wisdom, discernment, understanding, strength, patience, and a heart that never turns bitter. If more hardship is what it takes to earn it, God will be with me.

I feel my calling (and passion) more than anything is to help people heal and find themselves again. I strive to be somebody people feel safe telling anything to, and helping them realize the past doesn't have to hold weight over them. I know how lonely it can be to feel like you can't speak of these things, trials and trauma, whether it's a fear of judgment, silence or pity, but in my eyes the most beautiful souls are often the ones that have endured the most.

A deciding factor for someone pursuing me may be that I'm a detransitioner! Maybe sharing this early means you won't get to know me for me, but I don't want to feel dishonest. God willing, a Christ loving husband is out there for me—it's okay if that's not you! I will tell you more about this should you ask.

I speak out against SOGI's agenda, help where I can, and if sharing what happened to me saves even one child from going through this, I believe there's joy to be found in it.

✝️ Genesis 50:20
"As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people are alive, as they are today."

Actions speak truth and hold the weight over words with me, but none of us are perfect! I value deep conversations, sensitivity, goofy humor, treasure quality time and small thoughtful acts over anything money can buy. Movie nights and picnics over fancy restaurants 100%!

Some green flags? Discount therapist friend.. Patient, never one to yell, stick up for my loved ones, critical thinking, and a broad sense of humor. Also have a high respect for and a very close relationship with my parents!

Some red flags? A history of depression and anxiety, but Ieaning on God and scripture is doing me well! I take my time getting to know people, so things will definitely move along slowly.

Definitely an introvert, a 2 to 3 close friends type! I can hyperfixate on how people are feeling/acting, so crowds can be a little exhausting for me after a while. I can be shy and like to befriend the stragglers, but I manage. :)

I'm kinda into gaming, history, psychology, sewing, baking, a large range of music, and can be a bit of a homebody, but I absolutely love spending time with my family/church, fishing, camping, outdoor work, gardening, projects, badminton, walking along the beach, trails, hikes and road trips! I also have my firearms and hunting license.

I deal with POTS, so extensive physical activity can be a bit hard for me, but I still enjoy what I can. :)

A dream of mine is to live on a farm or bit of land, learning to become more self-sufficient and homeschooling future kids!

I truly hope to remain within road trip distance of my family—it's hard to imagine a life, raising children, where they just wouldn't bond the same too far away to be decently involved.

I'm looking for another Christian, 20 - 35ish, and someone that will respect my values. God will come first, as will His word! I believe the man is the head of the household and spiritual leader. Our partnership and walk together in faith would be cherished, and we support each other in any way we can and need. Beyond that, if you ain't my best homie and we can't goof around, I don't want you anyway, BUDDY.

I'M SORRY I TYPED A NOVEL. :')